’Tis the season for holiday gatherings. Whether you entertain formally or casually, these practical tips will help you make get-togethers memorable.

The Right Size
The secret to a successful holiday gathering is orchestrating the occasion so it doesn't stretch your resources and you feel comfortable and in control. Here are a few tips:

• Limit the size of your gathering so you can manage your guests easily.
• Plan festivities that fit your budget and schedule.
• Choose decorations and tableware that fit your lifestyle. If you enjoy collecting elegant crystal and china, use your holiday gatherings to show off your treasures. But if informal is more your style, create a festive atmosphere with informal fabrics and china, or paper and plastic dinnerware.
• Select your guest list carefully. Include a variety of ages and a good mix of listeners and talkers.
• Invite guests by mail, phone or e-mail invitations. Make sure your invitations include all the important information: date, time, place, address, phone number and an RSVP request. Include a map showing how to get to the event location.
• When it comes to table coverings, use your imagination – just about anything goes. For formal occasions, use fine linen, lace or heirloom quilts. At informal get-togethers, turn to homey place mats, holiday runners, large printed handkerchiefs or even big squares of colorful paper.

• Build menus around dishes you know how to make and add one or two new recipes.
• Plan as many make-ahead dishes as you can. That way, you'll have time to enjoy your party.
• Combine foods with contrasting colors, textures and temperatures. Avoid dishes that are all the same color or all creamy or all crunchy.
• Plan a combination of hot and cold foods.

Make Your Guests Feel Welcome
Set the stage for your party with touches that add to the feeling of fun. Items such as luminaries lighting the front walk, a festive door wreath or candles and flowers throughout the house create an inviting atmosphere.

At the end of the gathering, treat guests to small favors that they can take home as mementos of the event. A small bag of nuts or candies, a colorful ornament, a frame for a wallet size photo or a small decorative candle are all inexpensive gifts.